Bittersweet

[Tavis]

I think what I'm trying to say is... give it a few more days, please.

[Angstwolf]

From the few times I talked to you in IRC, you seemed like a really awesome person. I'm sorry to see you go, especially since I've only been here for a couple of months and haven't had much of a chance to get to know you better.

It'd be great if you'd stay a while longer and see what happens, but I can't really say I'd blame you for leaving.

Hoping to talk to you again, but if not, farewell. :'(

[Foxhound]

Sad to see you go Spray. You're probably already gone for all I know, but it was nice to have you here. Do reconsider, but if you really want to leave, fine by me. But it still is a sad thing. If you decide to come back, you're certainly welcome to.

[Chris]

Well Goodbye Spray, Its your decision to leave to leave this forum...so be it. Well then, It's been fun knowing you Spray.

[Zaaphod]

Sorry that you're leaving Spray. I can't blame you though. If it's no longer enjoyable, then why stay.

May life treat you well.

[Loeln]

Now that I finally bother to read this forum it's well over a week too late.

While I may disagree with how you view what happened concerning me and DCS and know that's there's a pretty good chance that you won't read this message, I'd like to say that I always enjoyed talking with you on the chat, and have been missing having them.

Good luck, good times, and good travels to you. May you find what is best in life.

[FerretParade]

Things ended in good nature and people made up and you are pissed people didn't get punished. Have a little tolerance man. People make mistakes. They learned their lesson and said sorry. It's enough now they they have to build back respect and show us how they really are again.

That said, I'm loosing more and more respect for people around here. I hate people that want to follow through on rash opinions and post these far-fetched sob stories about how their life is just intolerable now cause of certain events. The events are done. If you can't get over it then I think you should get out of here. Just one less hate filled anger driven mind. Sorry we were not the legendary 100% perfect community you think to exist.

[Ibun]

The only mistake I made was the way I worded my opinion.

[FerretParade]

and you know what man its cool. Don't worry about it anymore. Most of everyone has sailed out of rough waters.

[Comrade K]

Things ended in good nature and people made up and you are pissed people didn't get punished. Have a little tolerance man. People make mistakes. They learned their lesson and said sorry. It's enough now they they have to build back respect and show us how they really are again.

That said, I'm loosing more and more respect for people around here. I hate people that want to follow through on rash opinions and post these far-fetched sob stories about how their life is just intolerable now cause of certain events. The events are done. If you can't get over it then I think you should get out of here. Just one less hate filled anger driven mind. Sorry we were not the legendary 100% perfect community you think to exist.

I wasn't even here when whatever it was that happened happened, but I have to agree here. It seems to have left scars, and people should just forget about it rather than creating more problems.
If someone has a bad day and says something nasty, there are no lasting effects unless other people allow there to be. No need to punish people that already regret what they've done, and haven't caused any permanent damage. The only damage done is that from people who have decided to stay angry rather than forgive the wrong-doings and move on.
So really, the only real damage to the forum comes from people who leave after one conflict.
In my limited time here, this forum's population is one of the best I've seen, but no matter how good it is, there will always be some flaws. Nobody and nothing is perfect in this world, but what's the use of damaging the few things that come close?'