more like if all ten of your toilets were clogged (let's say you're pretty well-to-do), she fixed all but one, but you still paid her for all of them.

Now imagine she quit being a plumber and decided on becoming a dentist and you had three fillings you needed but she only fixed two and referred you to someone else the the final one?

Now imagine that she quit being a dentist and became a nuclear physicist and you ask her to bake you a cake but she gives you a gerbil instead and is sick on your dog.

Now imagine she quit being a nuclear physicist and became a woman but oh forget it, this joke is old and not worth it.

she became a woman but her gay boyfriend and her remained in a relationship.

I remember reading that they actually married. If that is the case, is her mate an ex-homosexual?

no. Applying labels like that is just stupid. He loves DCS.

Now imagine he also loves cake, would you share your slice with him?

Sure I would-after he gets his woman to finish all the drawings she promised to Cougartiger!

But living with a woman is not the same as living with a man. It's not just genitalia that distinguishes them. Unless DCS has been feminine and wanting to be a woman since Day one, and her man was aware of this all along.

which, although I admit I'm not as much of an expert on the subject as others, I think he is.

Either way, you'd be being a dick if you were going to try to tell DCS or her partner what their sexual orientations are, regardless of what they think

Why? I do this with pretty much everyone all the time, Mr. Bi-Curious.

HOW. DID. YOU. KNOW? o__o

It matters in one sense of the word. Will DCS's husband be able to tolerate life with a woman rather than another man? However deeply they love each other, sooner or later it will become a serious issue with them.

I meant to say "I think he was" as in, I think that Orv did know that DCS was transgender long long before she came public with it on her blog, and I'm pretty sure that since they're partners, she discussed her issues with him. It wouldn't make sense otherwise.